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This piece and your words about letting go hit me deeply. There's something so powerful about that shift you describe, about moving from the desperate need to understand and control everything about your past to accepting that some questions might never have answers.

I've been learning in my own journey with depression that this ordinary, mundane work of building a life (the daily practices, the small acts of service, the willingness to be awkward and messy) is actually sacred work. For so long I thought healing meant having all the answers, being fixed, being perfect. But it's more about making peace with the questions and finding grace in the everyday mess of being human.

The way you're using art to process and release your family history feels so powerful. Sometimes I think creating is the only way to move through things that can't be solved or understood intellectually. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable conclusion to your series. There's something beautiful about choosing faith over control, even when the world feels so chaotic.

Grateful to witness your journey through this work.

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